Pria yang Menikah Punya Perilaku yang Lebih Baik

Pria cenderung akan bersikap lebih baik saat mereka menikah --hal itu terjadi karena pernikahan tampaknya membantu pria memperbaiki sikap mereka dan pria yang punya sikap lebih baik cenderung menjadikan pernikahan sebagai hal utama menurut penelitian di Amerika Serikat.

S. Alexandra Burt dan koleganya di Universitas Negeri Michigan juga menemukan bahwa pria yang kurang punya perilaku yang buruk cenderung akhirnya akan menikah.

Di antara pria-pria yang menikah beberapa menunjukkan bahwa tanda perilaku-perilaku buruk --terutama tindakan yang berhubungan dengan penyakit antisosial seperti perilaku kriminal, berbohong, agresif dan kurang punya belas kasihan-- berkurang setelah mereka mengikat diri dalam pernikahan.

Burt mengatakan bahwa pria yang menikah "pada awalnya bukanlah seorang yang antisosial dan bahkan setelah mereka menikah sikap antisosial itu makin berkurang."

Dalam penelitian yang dipublikasikan dalam "Archives of General Psychiatry" edisi Desember, Burt dan koleganya meneliti 289 pasang pria kembar selama 12 tahun, sejak usia 17 hingga 29 tahun. Lebih dari separuhnya adalah kembar identik.

Pria yang menikah selama masa penelitian tersebut, sekitar 60 persen dari mereka menunjukkan sikap antisosial lebih sedikit pada usia 17 dan 20, menunjukkan bahwa pria dengan sikap seperti itu cenderung akan kurang menempatkan pernikahan di tempat utama.

Pada usia 29 tahun, pria yang tidak menikah memiliki rata-rata memiliki 1,3 sikap antisosial, dibanding dengan 0,8 di antara pria-pria yang menikah.

Namun, di antara kembar identik dengan satu orang menikah dan yang lain tidak menikah, pria yang menikah didapati memiliki sikap antisosial yang lebih sedikit dibanding kembarannya yang tidak menikah.

Dalam kasus kembar identik dengan gen dan suasana masa kecil yang sama sehingga cenderung untuk menghasilkan sikap antisosial yang sama, penelitian ini mengindikasikan bahwa pernikahan membantu untuk membuang perilaku buruk tersebut.

Namun masih belum jelas mengapa pria dapat memperbaiki kelakukan mereka setelah menikah, kata Ryan King dari Universitas Albany yang tidak terlibat dalam penelitian tersebut.

Pria yang menikah menghabiskan lebih banyak waktu dengan pasangannya dibanding dengan teman-temannya dan perilaku buruk seperti kejahatan dan minum minuman keras cenderung menjadi aktivitas kelompok, katanya.

Ditambah lagi, pria yang menikah "akan lebih banyak kehilangan" bila mereka tertangkap karena aktivitas ilegal dan lebih peduli terhadap apa yang dipikirkan oleh pasangannya.

"Tidak setiap orang memiliki kemungkinan yang sama untuk menikah, namun mereka yang menikah mendapatkan manfaat dari pernikahan tersebut," kata King.

Hasil penelitian itu membantu menjelaskan temuan dari penelitian lain yang menunjukkan bahwa pria yang menikah melakukan lebih sedikit tindakan kriminal. Penelitian baru-baru ini contohnya, menunjukkan bahwa pernikahan berhubungan dengan penurunan 35 persen tindakan kriminal.

Penelitian juga menemukan bahwa orang yang menikah cenderung lebih sehat dibanding masih saat masih sendiri, meski penelitian baru-baru ini mengungkapkan bahwa keuntungan kesehatan karena pernikahan masih belum jelas. Namun mereka yang menikah cenderung hidup lebih lama, kurang mengalami depresi atau terkena penyakit jantung dan stroke.

How to Increase Traffic on Blog

Maybe some people will wonder, why the rating of our blog traffic decline continues. There are many things that affect it. Broadly speaking, the blog is luxurious, festive, perhaps crowded with unique widgets are somewhat complicated to install.

But there was also something very important, even vital. That is, there is a more important role in influencing the statistical fluctuation of our blog traffic. True, post articles answer. Because the article is the spirit of a blog to keep it into something that continues to look for in a search in google search engine.

There are several requirements that must be met for a blog visited by many people, both in terms of appearance or also in terms of the articles which we will post to the blog. Here are some things that can affect traffic requests;



1. Design blog as interesting as possible, choose a template that we think are doing interesting and settlement layout as neat as possible. Avoid layout that messy and less unsightly. Because there are also some tasteful open end of the blog because it looks looks beautiful.


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4. It is rather difficult as possible, ie topic discussion periodically update your post. But this will make your blog appear in the main in the search on the internet. And this will make our blogs more popular.


5. We do not need to make a post with super long sentences and super complicated. Also no need to with words - words that are too high scientific quality. Because it is enough to make the reader dizzy and lazy to find meaning in the dictionary. Enough with the language that is easy, normal and communicative. In order to direct the reader to know what we're talking about.


6. The title is interesting also not be forgotten. But also do not create a title that is too excessive, so out of the content available from your post.


7. In an article, so consider the quality and quantity of the article itself. The quality of the writing of words and to note, also the quantity of the contents of discussion are updated and easy to understand.


8. Create a schedule of regular management of your blog. Most people will be willing to routine air hours managing his blog if in a state that is interesting, but later when the mood is lost, will leave the blog dormant and even worse if the visitors would be left vague. It required a pretty healthy schedule, to avoid boredom us.


9. Oh yes, try to frequent another blog comment, this is the easiest way for our blog is known by other visitors. Because almost 100 percent each will give a comment, you are required to write your name and your web page. This method is also quite effective in increasing the page rank, because if we dofollow blog comment, so automatically we will get a backlink.


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1. Log into the site socialmarker.com


2. In the column "title", content with the title page, an example; How to increase traffic blog visitors the most steady.


3. In the column "link (URL)", fill in your URL, eg = (http://www.otakotakcampur.com)


4. In the text field contents with the description. Briefly, as in lintasberita


5. In the column tags, content with the tag or keyword.


6. Later there is an inscription "select the social bookmarking sites You Want to submit to", select the social bookmarking site who want to go. Click "all" if you want to submit to all social bookmarking site, click the "dofollow" to submit to a dofollow social bookmarking site.


7. Click 'submit', finished the submission process.


That was some way that to some extent affect the traffic of visitors on the blog. Maybe it could be tried, and immediately see the changes. Good luck ...